Well 2 weeks ago I went to church with the family. Apparently my hair became a discussion among some of the members. Of course nothing positive. Last Sunday I did not go to church die to Avery having a tummy bug. When McKay came home he told me about one member that came up to him and asked if I have changed my awful hair. His reply was no and I see you have not either. Well the comments had gotten back to the Bishop and Sunday afternoon he stopped by to assure me that this was not the views of the majority of the ward members. He said even though yes it is bold but it sits me and looks nice. It was not of him to stop by to say this. I have never been one to really care about what people think of how I look or dress. Since I do not do this all for them I do it for myself.
the part that bothers me is the judgment by this one member. This is not the first time she has made comments to me. Even though I am active in the wards activities and attend services I am not a member. She believes that there are things I should not be included in due to my non membership. I brought this up with the Bishop and they Relief Society Pres. . They both say to just ignore her. Which I do.
I was planning on changing my hair this week but I think I will wait. I love my hot pink hair even if it is fading.
1 comment:
Goodness, sounds like some of the members of your ward act just like the newly married, student members in our wards. Church seems to become more about a competition about who's husband is smarter or who has the better calling. Sorry you had to deal with the ridiculous nature some people have.
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